So you’ve nabbed yourself a fiery Aries, and life should now be a bed of roses. Right?
Not so fast.
Fiery, Mars-ruled Aries is the first sign of the Zodiac. The “baby” sign of the Zodiac, so to speak. Energetic, lively, and passionate—a typical Aries is anything but dull.
Aries who are born closer to the previous sign, Pisces, may show signs of being a bit softer, a bit more laid-back, than a typical Aries. And an Aries who is born on the cusp of the second sign of the Zodiac—Taurus—may show signs of being a bit slower to act, to be a bit more firmly rooted. But make no mistake, an Aries is still an Aries, and that means life will seldom be boring around them.
In love and lust, Aries tend to make for exciting partners. They’re energetic, passionate, and full of life. They’re the ones who are flitting about at parties, chatting everyone up and generally being the life of the party.
If you’re their partner, you’d better have a bit of independence in your spirit. They hate clingy, dependent types, even though they like to be the dominant one in the relationship.
Your Aries date will know where you are and who you’re with, even if they don’t seem to be paying attention to you. To a typical Aries, what’s theirs is theirs, and they won’t stand for you flirting with anyone else (regardless what pretty lady or handsome gent they, themselves, happen to be hanging out with at that particular moment).
Aries can be overbearing and overprotective at times. If he or she thinks that someone is coming on to you, then that someone had better be prepared to make a quick exit. Aries needs to be number one in your life and won’t tolerate anyone else making a move on their mate.
Aries is a straight-forward, passionate sign with a quick temper that will flash up at the smallest provocation. They generally don’t hold onto grudges, though. They’re far too busy for that. (Although they love a good argument—it tends to get things fired up and makes for a bit of stimulation, which is something a typical Ram can’t resist.)
Your Aries guy or gal is a proud, strutting type who enjoys showing off their mates. However, they can be fickle. They always seem to be searching for the next, best, new thing. They’re looking for their “dream girl” or “dream guy”. They may be searching so intently that they may lose sight of what is right in front of them.
Generally, those born under the sign of Aries are most compatible with sunny, lively Leos and enthusiastic, fun-loving Sagittarians. They can also find compatibility with warm, stable Taureans, quick-witted Geminis, open-minded Aquarians and tolerant, sweet Pisceans. They may have less success with those born under the signs of Cancer, Capricorn, Libra, Virgo and Scorpio.
To keep your Aries interested, keep just a bit of distance. Let them chase you—they prefer a bit of a challenge, not an easy conquest. However, their outgoing personality hides a sensitive, vulnerable ego with a jealous, insecure streak. If your Aries thinks you’re flirting with or are interested in someone else, then they’ll drop you in a heartbeat, and they’ll forget you just as fast. They prefer to keep moving forward.
For these fiery souls, looking back is a waste of time. They’re all about the forward motion, and an Aries hates to waste a moment of their time. They’ve got things to do, places to go, people to see! As far as Aries is concerned, it’s their way or the highway. They’ve got a life to live, with or without you. All you can do is just enjoy the ride while you’re on it.